Toyota Women

Disclaimer: Super big thanks to Toyota for having me as a guest at the Lifesaver Conference in Denver Colorado. My travel expenses were covered. I was not compensated for attending the event or for writing about Toyota. All opinions are my own and are not influenced by Toyota.

Are Our Teens Safe on the Roads?

I’ve always known that teenagers often lose their lives to fatal car crashes. What I didn’t know, until recently, is that the number one killer of teens are car crashes.

When I was a teenager, and being the daughter of a police officer who frightened me when I was learning to drive, I knew how precarious driving a vehicle could be. I knew then that teens lost their lives often due to car crashes. This is something that became a harsh reality when I was a teenager and I lost friends, acquaintances in High School or friend’s lost family members due to car accidents. We heard the stories, we often saw the aftermath of the wrecks, we felt the heartache and fear, but, it didn’t stop most teens I knew from driving recklessly.

The most distraction we had, back then, was from our own idiocy, loud music, posturing and silliness.

The only electronic device that distracted us then was a pager.

Now? Well, how much are we connected? How often are we distracted as drivers? How often do we stare at the moving map on our GPS? What about eating and drinking? Changing music? Texting or talking on your cell?

We know that texting and driving is dangerous and if we are going to chat on our phones we should be hands free. But, even hands free is a huge distraction.

Combine all of these distractions with an inexperienced teen driver and the world has created a cocktail of catastrophe.

Encouraging a Safe Teen Driver Starts Early

I have an almost 14 year old step-son and a diva of a 11 year old daughter. The focus from first foods, first words and first steps has shifted to first loves, first heartbreaks and first cars. The world of driving is just on the horizon for them… and this frightens me a little. Yes, I still have a few years until this starts being an actual reality. The truth is that their driving behavior has already started to form in their sponge brains.

It starts with us. The parents. Those who drive them around now. They watch, learn and repeat.

I’ve spent so much time advocating for my chronically ill daughter who has life threatening health issues. I’ve, naturally, assumed that would always be our biggest battle. Realizing that her getting into the car as a teen could the tragic mistake I made was jolting. I know I talk about being a safe driver, point out with colorful words when others are not driving safely (hehe) and I think I’ve instilled driving safety in the kids… but has it been enough?

Sure, I want to lock her up, and her siblings, and throw away the key forever. I want to do this for plenty of reasons! I won’t… I didn’t say I can’t because I SO could if I needed to… but, for now… I won’t. Did you read that kids?!

Be the Example

The first thing I decided to change was my own driving behavior. The statistics on distracted driving, and the tragedies that followed, made me physically ill and brought more tears to my eyes than any other events in the past year combined. In order for me to expect my children to be good drivers it has to start with me.

No more texting and driving. Not even when the light is red. Not even for a quick second. I just don’t pick up that phone, the phone is put on silent and everything can wait.

I do not even talk on speaker when I am driving. We aren’t completely focused on driving when we are caught up in a conversation on our cells.

I sure don’t want my soon to be driving teens to risk having a conversation and driving so I have to set that standard.

Be a Part of the Learning Experience

I am also starting to educate myself NOW on how to be a better supporter for my kids when they become drivers.

Toyota is celebrating their 10th year of saving lives through the Toyota Driving Expectations program. Toyota offers complimentary 2.5 hour classes for teens and their parents to help prepare the newest driver in the family. It is a hands on experience that has one mission – to help save lives on the roadway. Signing up for classes on their website is easy.

Here are the current dates and locations for the Toyota Driving Expectations Spring Tour -

 

Toyota Headquarters in Torrance, CA – May 4 & 5

Bass Pro Shops in Denver, CO – May 18 & 19

Toyota Texas Plant in San Antonio, TX – June 8 & 9

 

It’s FREE – I just thought I would emphasize that. :P

Toyota can also bring the program to your local high school and your local Toyota dealership.  You can visit the Toyota Driving Expectations site to find out how to bring this lifesaving program to your community.

Toyota also has another resource for parents and teens called Toyota Teen Driver which is a plethora of online information for the whole family.

I don’t want my kids to be terrified to drive with me in the car… I want them to drive me, safely, everywhere I want to go. I want to be able to lovingly annoy them about how long it will take to get there, when we will stop for a bathroom break and why we have to listen to that horrible music… I want them to take road trips and know they will come home with memories of awesomeness… I want them to be able to take the car out, on dates… wait, no… scratch that one. No dating. Ever. I do want to know that every time they get behind the wheel or trust a friend to drive them that they will be empowered, safe and come home safely… and most importantly, I want to do everything that I can to make sure they won’t add to the statistic of teen deaths.

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I felt that my time at Peju winery deserved a post of it’s own. Yes, it’s gorgeous, the wine is some of the best and the entire night was a once in a lifetime event…

However, this story is not just about the well known and amazing Peju winery but also about how much I dislike feet. Don’t get me wrong. I love Peju and plan on being back as much as possible… but this story is deeper.

Or at least laughable.

I really love wine but feet gross me out. The thought of grape stomping at Peju Winery gave me chills when I found out that was on the agenda. Naturally, that sounds like a ton of fun… but, so nasty.

I don’t do feet.

Dirty, slimy and stinky feet make me sick.

I avoided the doctor when I hurt my ninja kicker and couldn’t walk because I was worried I’d be put in a cast.

I used to get so ill from stepping on slimy things that it would make me throw up in my mouth.

I didn’t drink wine for a long time because I associated it with feet thanks to that hilarious I Love Lucy scene.

Yes, I have issues. I know this. Let’s move on…

But, I’m not the type to let anything stand in my way or hold me back. Grape stomping at Peju Winery it is!

After we had a day of inspiration, yoga with Yogitoes, test driving a Prius V on the way to my Aveda makeover at Sala Salon I was ready to eat, drink and… uh, grape stomp.

Peju Winery is one of the most beautiful wineries I have ever experienced. The staff was friendly, informative and entertaining. The scenery was something out of a movie. The wine? Amazing. Try the Fifty/Fifty! We toured the facility of Peju winery, drank glasses of deliciousness, paired it with little bits of nom-a-licious and drank some more.

Then we were invited out to the vineyard where we paired up and prepared to get our grape stomping on.

I’m not always texting, instagramming and tweeting…

Chelsey from The Paper Mama and I teamed up. We were super pumped. We wanted to win. We were going to do this… Caryn from Rockin Mama and Romy from Romy Raves were our competition…

Competition? Look at what they were wearing! (I adore them btw)

 

Unfortunately, two tall chicks in a tiny barrel who aren’t skilled at clearing the bunghole didn’t get the exact victory they wanted. We had a blast, we had style, we were bent over in front of a bunch of people stomping until we were panting.

It was amazing.

Here is where I admit something that I didn’t want to when I was at Peju winery… after I got my stomp on… I started feeling sick. The feeling of slimy grapes on my feet swept over me. I had to wash my feet. I had to stop thinking about it.

I practically ran to the bathroom which seemed like miles away…

And I threw up when I got there. Yup. It wasn’t pretty.

I wisped, laughed at myself and texted a couple close friends about it so they could mock me endlessly…

That last part wasn’t well thought out.

I went back to see the final round where team “Elephant Toes” with Waylon of Elephant Journal and Alex of Yogitoes stomped their way to victory and everyone at Peju winery cheered.

The night ended with us dining in the vineyard. Despite Chelsey and I not making it to the final round… and that whole puking part… I felt like I was victorious. It was a day of adventure, new and old friends and memories that will last a lifetime.

It was getting late so I stepped away from the table as dinner was ending to say goodnight to my kids. They were upset, crying and missing me. The mommy guilt swept over me and I felt terrible that I had so much fun while they were sad.

I made them laugh when I told them about Mommy’s grape stomp-puking adventure. They enjoy laughing at me… aren’t kids sweet?! Just as I was about to hang up with them I heard something swoosh by my head. I looked around and realized how dark it was. I was kind of far from the tables where the lights were.

The swoosh came back. WTF?!

My kids realized I was quiet and just as they started to ask what was wrong I blurted out, “Okay, kids… I love you… Mommy, needs to go… a bat almost hit me in the face!”

They laughed at me! My ten year old daughter told me that I must be seeing things after my grape stomp trauma. They hung up the phone happy and mocking me.

The way it should be… I guess.

And that is the time I went to Peju winery, stomped grapes, lost my lunch and bats attacked swooshed me. It was truly one of the best days ever.

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I’ve always lived eco-friendly and environmentally conscious before it was trendy to “go green”. It was a part of my upbringing as my family is very earth friendly and recycles, reuses and reduces like you wouldn’t believe. An eco-friendly lifestyle can be accomplished in many ways: how you recycle, creating and supporting sustainability, what you cook and how, the vehicles you drive and the clothes that you wear.

When I was invited to attend Toyota’s first ever EcoDriven event in Yountville (near Napa), California a couple weeks ago I was excited. Actually, saying I was excited doesn’t even sum it up… I was honored, thankful, ecstatic and stoked. Yup, stoked.

My journey began on my way to Napa. My flight was thankfully less than an hour but I arrived at peak traffic time with an hour commute from San Francisco. I was told it could take two or three hours in traffic. This is usually something that makes people cringe… but after growing up in Los Angeles and living in New York traffic doesn’t phase me in the slightest. I also took the opportunity to talk to my driver. He was friendly, funny and in that three hours of traffic I talked his ears off. We laughed, talked about our families, traveling, cars, wine and life. I kept getting texts, tweets and emails asking where I was and friends telling me how bummed they were that I was in such bad traffic. Didn’t seem that bad when I was making the most out of it.

When I arrived to Yountville I was shocked at how gorgeous it was. I felt like I was on a movie set. The city is full of beauty and culture… oh and great food and wine. The Bardessono hotel, a LEED Platinum hotel, was an additional piece of beauty to this area. The Bardessono combines green, luxury and the ultimate Napa experience with an amazing Bar and Restaurant called Lucy’s. We started our first night drinking wine outdoors and then making our way to experience the deliciousness of Lucys. If you ever stop in here order the french fries… They are the most amazing fries you will ever have. I. Kid. You. NOT!

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The next day our agenda is jam packed of awesomeness. Our morning began with a panelist of inspiring green career centered people from Yogitoes, Threads for Thought, Bob Burnquist, Jana Hartline with Toyota. It’s truly inspiring to hear what companies are doing to make a conscious effort to focus their business around sustainability.

Chelsey and I were paying attention and completely inspired. Truly. But, this picture cracks me up so I had to include it. Don’t kill me Chelsey! hehe

Then we got our Yoga on which was hosted by the fabulous ladies of Yogitoes. I’ve never been a yoga person… I’m a mountain bike riding, snowboarding, bmx biking, martial arts kicking and geeky gaming dancing type of physical person. I always thought Yoga seemed boring. Oh, I’ve tried to do Yoga… at home… from a DVD but I never had the full Yoga experience. I was five minutes into this calming Yoga session when I looked over at Caryn from Rockin Mama and I whispered, “This is really freaking hard!”

 

I embraced it. Powered through it even though my still-giving-me-issues-foot was starting to ache and I walked away absolutely loving Yoga. I’m looking into a Yoga studio now!

One thing that I love about Yogitoes is their sustainability and eco-friendly focus. This is something I talk about regularly with my Girl Scouts and their peers. Seeing more companies focus on sustainability warms my ninja heart.

Then we were off to learn more about Toyota’s EcoDriven vehicles. I’m constantly impressed with Toyota’s environmentally friendly focus and the vehicles they give us as a result. The RAV4 EV for sure caught my eye since plugin vehicles are evolving quickly. I, naturally, gravitated towards the Highlander Hybrid since it is the perfect married between my outdoorsy side and desire to drive a hybrid. When it comes down to it I’d be happy with any Toyota vehicle!

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Caryn (Rockin MaMa), Romy (Romy Raves), Chelsey (The Paper Mama) and I ended up driving the spacious Prius V on our way to Sala Salon for an Aveda spa treatment.

I’m not great at being a chick. This is something I’m very vocal about. I was raised by a single Dad who isn’t exactly down with the feminine knowledge. Spa’s and salons are foreign to me and the word product when it pertains to beauty confuses me. However, I’m always down to try something new. I told my stylist to do what she thought was best for my hair… she immediately asked me why I wasn’t embracing my curls.

I don’t know? Because my curly hair makes me look like the offspring from Hagrid and a Wookiee?!

I told her I would leave it up to her. First of all, did you know they give you a scalp massage when they start the Aveda process?! Yup, I’m sold on this. Anyway, Aveda’s Be Curly products have made me actually loving my hair! For many years Aveda has been the one company I can rely on that won’t destroy my sensitive skin or flare up my eczema. It doesn’t shock me I’d find product that would work well with my curly mop of mess on my head.

I guess sometimes I can take a nice picture without faces. Just sometimes.

I left Sala Salon in our Prius V still feeling Yoga pumped and feeling happier about my hair than I ever have been… and this eco-friendly adventure isn’t over yet…

Disclaimer: I am a member of the Toyota Womens Influencer Network and was invited to Toyota’s EcoDriven event because I live an ecodriven lifestyle. I was not compensated for this post or event. My travel and accommodations were provided for me. All opinions expressed are my own.

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My family has a history of recycling vehicles and a hand me down system that I have known my entire life.

Basically, I’ve always bought the vehicles my other relatives no longer want. I’ve never been a car snob and so long as the vehicle works I’ve been fine with that. But, times are changing and I am understanding the value in a good vehicle for my family.

This means the technology in my pimp rides have been far from up to date. My car doesn’t even have a USB port and it still has a tape player! It also doesn’t speak to me like Kitt from Night Rider (though, I admit I always dreamed of that being possible)

If you read this and don’t know who Kitt is I guess it’s safe to say I am starting to get old.

When I test drove all the previous Toyota vehicles I didn’t mess around with the Entune system that much because time was limited. When I was able to use the FJ Cruiser last week my jaw literally dropped at the functionality of Entune…

I also laughed so hard at talking jibberish to it and hearing the sweet voice say “Pardon?”

Also… if you say some things that sound angry she actually asks you, “Did I say something wrong?” Um, if you say foul language she has the same reaction.

This is what I heard anyway. Ahem… not something I’d actually do.

If your passenger is trying to program something and she says that function is disabled while the vehicle is in motion then take it from me – she means it. I think her voice gets increasingly bitter the more you try to mess with her.

When you sync your mobile device it asks you to name it – just remember that this name will be repeated back to you every time you use it.

So, don’t say something inappropriate. (not that I’d do such a thing or my loved ones)

Silliness aside the Entune system makes the vehicle experience safer and more enjoyable. It really is something I feel would increase our enjoyment when we travel. I also appreciate the hands free functionality that limits distractions.

All vehicles could benefit from this.

Had I watched the video below before I tried setting up Entune it would have made things a lot easier!

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I wrote previously about how much I love the Toyota Tundra. Driving that beefy truck of awesomness was an experience. I love camping and the outdoors so having a truck for our adventures is ideal though it’s not exactly practical.

I always felt like I’d want two vehicles – a smaller car for around town and then the truck or van to use for traveling. This isn’t exactly in the budget and seems ridiculous for a single mom with two kids.

Then I got in the FJ Cruiser and realized this was the perfect family vehicle. Seriously, it’s my perfect “Soccer Mom Vehicle”.

But replace Soccer Mom with OutdoorsyNinjaCampingFutureTravelTrailerHavingFishingAndPreparingForZombies Mom.

It has the outdoorsy awesomeness that I love but the comfort, features like the Entune system and size of a family vehicle. It has great towing capabilities, it looks like something out of Star Wars, it is super roomy and it can go in water!!!!

It’s the ultimate zombie apocalypse vehicle… for the whole family!

Basically, I’m going to get me one of these. The space in the FJ Cruiser is impressive and I’d be able to load up our camping loot and be off for an adventure easily.

I also love how this truck maneuvers! I expected it to take wide turns and be a bit of a beast but it is such a smooth ride. I can tell that winding up pukey roads in this will be a breeze!

Disclaimer: I am part of the TWIN aka Toyota Women Influencer Network. I was given an FJ Cruiser to drive for five days because I am a part of this program. I was not compensated for this post. All opinions are my own and were not influenced in any way by the program or possible zombie attacks. Yes, I mentioned zombies again.

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My Dad and I were talking about what it was like when I reached driving age and he told me it was pretty much the worst experience of his life. His annoyance started to ooze from his pores and I got that crazy Dad look from him like I was that teenager again.

I honestly couldn’t believe his statement that it was the worst experience of his life.

I then started to remind him of all the other stupid and horrible things I did in my youth and this somehow didn’t comfort him.

In my defense my Dad was the worst freaking instructor ever. Imagine Mr. Miyagi (silent and pushes you harder) and Samuel L Jackson (total badass and gets scary when loud) mashed up as your father figure giving you driving lessons.

Despite what Samuel L Jackson said in Pulp Fiction – It. Wasn’t. Cool.

He sat in the car, crossed his arms, glared at me and didn’t say a word.

I was so nervous I was going to screw up that I couldn’t concentrate. I reversed instead of pulling forward. I forgot to use my blinker. I came out of a shopping center parking lot too fast and the car made the THUMP SCREECH noise.

The whole time he just made this face -

He is terrifying!

This horrible experience lasted all of 15 minutes and he signed me up for driving school. This was mandatory to get my permit but he made me take the extended course twice. TWICE!

To this day my Dad still won’t let me drive when he is in the car and I am fine with that.

Toyota has a program for Toyota Teen Drivers – This program not only helps teen drivers but also helps parents become great co-pilots for their kids. I told my Dad about this program and suggested we took the course so we can one day learn to drive together.

He laughed at me and said if I can survive the course with my daughter then he will consider it. Maybe.

Disclosure: I am a member of the Toyota Women Influencer Network aka TWIN. I was not compensated for this post or participation in the program.

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Let’s just get this out there… I’m like emotionally inept. I’m excited about life and live life to the fullest. However, I lack that gene that makes most people just gushy over… something. That perfect purse. The amazing shoes. The dreamy dude that looked at you the right way. I just lack it.

Falling into the state of swoony is easier for some than others. Some people just fall hard for things that are beautiful and showy. I’ve always thought people who were easily swayed or fell for anything easily… especially vehicles, were foolish.

I’ve never been an obsessive car person… not to say there is anything wrong with that. Actually, I have made fun of my buddies over the years who treat their cars better than their ladies.

I’ve just always been the type of person who felt that if a vehicle gets you to where you are going then it’s perfect.

Actually come to think of it every vehicle I’ve owned was a hand me down from a relative. I didn’t have that desire to seek out a specific vehicle that I dreamed would be mine.

It seemed silly.

Then I met the new Tundra at the L.A. Auto Show and I instantly fell in love. I realized sitting in it that I wanted to take this beauty on every adventure I have dreamed about! It’s my perfect family vehicle for my unique little family. It has the right amount of space, awesome towing capacity and is a camping obsessed woman’s dream.

It is also amazingly comfortable which is very important for my daughter who has joint and inflammation issues that become painful on long car rides.

It takes a lot for me to feel like I really want something. I’m not easily wooed. I’m not materialistic and my happiness doesn’t rest on things I own. I do not fall in love easily with anyone or anything… except for maybe bacon. There was the time I had a bacon donut I knew I would never be the same again.

Dammit I’m in love with the freaking Tundra. He is more reliable and stronger than any dude I’ve met! I’ll be patiently waiting until I can make him mine.

Yeah, this is starting to get weird.

I used to think I was going to be the crazy cat lady but now I’ll just be the crazy truck lady.

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After risking their lives to protect our country many veterans come home to find that their career choices are limited. There are always sad stories about veterans coming back to poverty. We have Veterans in the family and many friends who face these same struggles.

Yes, it’s true that many Veterans struggle adjusting to a civilian lifestyle. Just because that transition is harder for them does not mean it should close doors to those that risked their lives for us.

There are many companies out there that are participating in a movement to “Hire a Hero” and Toyota is one of them!

Participating Toyota, Scion and Lexus dealerships are providing job opportunities to military service men and women are currently in the process of or who have already separated from military service. They provide training and utilize their skills obtained in the military to further their careers. Last week Toyota participated in the National Hire Our Heroes job fair aboard the USS Intrepid. This initiative includes 400 hiring fairs in different communities.

Toyota at the National Hire Our Heroes Job Fair

I know how stressful it is for my loved ones to consider leaving the military and wondering where they will go. Companies like Toyota that are stepping up to Hire Our Heroes have a special place in my heart. Thank you to those that serve our country and companies that take care of them when they become veterans.

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I always try to relate what I am trying to convey with some sort of experience. I’m either learning with them or helping them learn through me. So, I find a personal connection in some way.

This is especially true as a Girl Scout Troop Leader. As I was planning our next meeting, in post cookie season madness, I kept wanting to relate my experiences and inspiration at the Women in the World Summit somehow.

I wanted what I gained from it to be passed on not only to my kids but to my Troop as well.

We started our Amuse Journey which is all about learning about roles for girls and women in the world. This was perfect!

By the way… the new Girl Scout program has a twist on the old badge system. Now Journey books offer an in depth way to empower Girl Scouts to Connect and Take Action! They have taken some getting used to but I love them.

We started out talking about different roles of women and what kind of roles they related to. This tied in my many experiences and women I was inspired by at the summit. One of the influential ladies I talked about was a young girl, Talia Leman CEO of Randomkid.org, who is one of Toyota’s “Mothers of Inventions” who raised ten million dollars for hurricane Katrina… when she was ten years old.

My juniors are her age! This made jaws drop. This lit a fire in the girl’s eyes… this confirmed everything I have told them the past couple years: “You can make anything happen and have an impact no matter what your age is.”

Through the meeting we discussed many different women and how powerful and extraordinary women were once Girl Scouts. We talked about how you don’t have to be an adult to make a difference.

It was powerful and one of my Girl Scouts brought me to tears when she said that she wanted to be a Girl Scout Troop Leader like me. She said I make her feel like she can do anything no matter what. She said I empower her. I couldn’t even say anything… and all I felt was appreciation.

I’m still elated from that trip and even further inspired after my experiences had an impact on my Girl Scout Troop.

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Just a week ago I was in NYC walking in the Lincoln Center for the Women in the World Summit and not knowing at the time that this trip would change my life. I knew the Summit was about the fearless women who take on the world but I didn’t expect so many of them to be, well, like everyone else who were propelled forward to do more.

I mean the life altering part genuinely, by the way. Some people can exaggerate that saying with statements of truly insignificant things changing their lives. I once said a tiny brownie would change people’s lives if they ate it…

and while that was a slight exaggeration… I still haven’t had a brownie that has compared to that one. It really was that good.

This Summit is obviously bigger than a brownie. It’s the creme de la creme brownie of life topped ala mode with awesomesauce.

Not only am I currently still inspired but I am now really hungry.

I believe in taking every struggle, hurdle and obstacle in life as a lesson and making the choice to move from it with something to gain. I affectionately encourage those around me to ninja kick those obstacles out of the way to find happiness. It is what I teach my daughter to help her get through her life threatening health hurdles. It is something I live by and something that many have found inspiring about me. I’m flattered when people find me inspiring.

I mostly wonder if their heads have some screws loose!

I am very confident, don’t allow negativity to weigh me down and I have an obnoxiously determined personality, however, I am quite humble and am probably more critical of myself than anyone should be. Compliments make me feel awkward and when I am provided something amazing I often wonder why the hell I, of all people, am so fortunate.

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Standing in a room with many powerful figures in the world and hearing their stories would usually make someone feel insignificant or intimidated… it gave me perspective. It charged me full of energy. It made so many day to day complaints insignificant. It made me even more determined to obtain my goals for my kids and I.

It made me realize that the encouragement we hear from childhood that anyone can make a difference is truly a fact.

I’ve been staring at this screen for a week not knowing how I would convey all that I learned. I have many notes. Many people I want to talk about. Many topics I feel are inspiring and can light a fire cracker up some butts to get people going. So many feelings I want to share about the company, Toyota, who sent me to this Summit because they support women in the world. Oh and the women they support! The Mothers of Invention and how fortunate I am for the time I spent with them.

So rather than writing a general blog post summing up my experience I am taking the time to research, plan and take action. I gained a ton of feedback on twitter, facebook and email from those of you who were following this event. I hope to share and start a ripple of inspiration from the knowledge I feel privileged to have now.

The situations that some of these women found themselves in seemed hopeless. All odds were against them. Some had no families and no answers. Some thought they had no rights in their own lives. They found strength, courage and hope despite everything… and they not only survived the unthinkable but they also empower other women. They make women as a whole stronger. They had me laughing, in tears, physically uncomfortable and inspired from their stories.

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They made me damn proud of being a woman.

It doesn’t matter if you are from humble beginnings, giving a second life to teen moms, thrown in to a life of slavery, determined to invent something outside of the box or want to empower youth because every single person can make something extraordinary out of their lives.

There is no man, person or seemingly impossible odds that can hold you back from anything you want to accomplish. You want it? Go out there and do it and don’t stop until it’s done. It may seem easy to say that and sure these are just words on a screen just as a movie can give us that Hollywood ending that anything is possible…

But, after the Women in the World Summit I now know for a fact that it isn’t just stories. It is life. And it’s ours to live.

My feet haven’t touched the ground since my trip and I hope this elated and empowered feeling lasts a lifetime.

Photo Credit: Fadra from All Things Fadra - The TWIN team at Women in the World Summit!

Disclosure: I attended this Summit as a special guest of Toyota as a member of the Toyota Women’s Influencer Network. My travel expenses and pass to the summit and event were covered. I was not compensated for this event and all opinions expressed are my own.

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